The most effective way to raise your vibration

In order to communicate with the spirit world, one needs to raise their vibration. The reason is that the spirit world is a much subtler world. And Earth is dense. So you want to lighten up. The most common tool given to people who want to increase their connection to the spirit world is meditation. I agree that meditation, or at least a practice that allows you to quiet the mind, is important. And the reason is that spirit does not usually speak. It whispers. And to hear whispers, one has to have a relatively quiet mind. This takes a lot of practice. 

But the most effective practice to raise one’s vibration is not meditation. It is laughter. A good laughing spell does wonders for the soul. And it raises your vibration like nothing else. I know this is something I need to practice more often. I can be so serious. Even when I laugh, it’s intense. And it is usually at things that don’t make other people laugh. Ha ha ha. 

Two days after my Dad died, I flew to Paris to see my Mum, sister and brother before the funeral. On the way to my Mum’s flat, my guardian angel gave me a job. First, I saw a picture of him on a poster in a Metro station I passed. I was so gobsmacked, I came out of the train and sat opposite the poster, staring for five minutes. Then I took my iPhone out and took a photo. It was a guy with curly hair and dark eyes (I think my angel has blue eyes but apart from that, they looked almost exactly the same), wearing a black shirt and a pair of huge wings. The poster was an advert for a play that was staged by a theatre company called… The Laughter Company. Can you believe it? I couldn’t. And yet, these were my orders. My guardian angel was asking me to make my family laugh, in no uncertain terms. I have to say, I wasn’t particularly thrilled with the assignment. It seemed impossible. How do you make your mother, sister and brother laugh two days before your Dad’s funeral? And yet, I knew without a doubt that this is what my Dad would have wanted. 

I had brought with me a DVD set of a French trio of comedians from the nineties. When I put it in my suitcase, I had no idea why. It was like my hands reached out for the DVD box set without thinking. When I saw the angel in the Metro station at Sevres Lecourbe, it all clicked into place. That was why I had taken the DVDs with me. My guardian angel is also a healing angel and he often uses my hands to do healing on people. I guess he had used my hands to grab the DVDs. When he uses my hands, I am not usually aware that he is doing it, which is probably a good thing. I am not a big fan of the idea of some spirit being taking over my body, even if it’s an angel. Ha ha ha. 

And on that day, I managed to make everyone laugh. Yeah! So if I can make my family laugh on the back of my Dad dying, you will agree that it should be a much easier task to laugh on a normal day. So go on, do it. Don’t hold back. And you might just find out that you can communicate with your angel or loved ones in heaven a lot easier for it. They have a great sense of humour. Ask them to make you laugh. 

Would you like to share a story of when your angel or someone you love on the other side made you laugh? Please do so in the comments. I would love to hear your story. 

To your loved ones in heaven

(C) Ange de Lumiere 2017

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Happy anniversary to me

Some of you who have read my book know that my husband and I had plans to get married the year that my father died. It had been a long time coming too. We had known each other for well over ten years. My husband kept on waiting for the “perfect time”. I have to smile at this in retrospect because when the perfect time came, we had to cancel because my father was dying. 

I understand why my husband wanted to wait to be sure, even though it drove me crazy. For nearly ten years, he would say “You know I am going to marry you one day” and it never seemed to happen. He had every reason to be cautious. After all, we had both been married before and had gone through painful divorces. Still. 

We could have got married long before. And if we had, my father would have been able to be with us. 

Hang on a minute. This is not true. My father was with us. And this is the message I want to share with you today. Everything I wrote above this paragraph might sound so true it can become seductive but the truth of the matter is our loved ones in heaven are ALWAYS with us. He was with us in ways he could not have been before he died. Because once people go back to the creator, they can be everywhere and even in multiple places at once. And before my father died, he had very set ideas of what was right and wrong and we were actually alienated. The love remained but we lived on different planets. He had been brain washed by the Catholic Church. I had always been a free spirit and carved my own spirituality outside of any existing framework, simply because most religious and even spiritual proposal were tainted by human thinking. I preferred to go directly to source. 

I realised last week that the purpose of my book is to create a space of untainted spirituality for women. And this is also why I created my Facebook group for women. Women get a really bad deal in most religions so I wanted to create a space for them where they can be honoured. If you would like to join my group, feel free to ask. Here is the link to join:

I look forward to seeing you there.

To your spirituality,

(C) Ange de Lumiere 2017

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The blanket of love

In my book, I talk a lot about the blanket of love. It started for the first time in January 2014, whilst my father was still alive. I was driving to my local supermarket to do a groceries shop when I felt something wrapping itself around me. A presence. I didn’t know what it was. Maybe my guardian angel. But what did it want? When I asked my best friend that night, she said it was my Dad. Then she went on saying he wanted to reach out to me to tell me to come and visit really soon as there was not much time. 

I was baffled. How could my father hug me energetically when he lived thousands of miles away? He didn’t believe in that woo woo stuff. He was a medical doctor. Catholic too. This was witchcraft. 

Well not really, we travel a lot in our sleep. Astral travel. And my Dad loved sleeping. He usually had a nap every day.  He used to tell me about his dreams. They involved flying a lot. So that day, he was probably having his nap. He popped out of his body and came to talk to me. His soul, that is. His personality had no clue. I find this fascinating. Don’t you?

Well at the end of May, my Mum came to visit and I felt the blanket of love again. My mum is quite anxious in airports. She is over eighty years old after all. She feels unsafe in places where lots of people come and go. Plus she gets upset easily. She has a bit of a temper too. Knowing all that, I though the new increased security measures would aggravate her. Having to take her shoes off is not easy at the best of times. But she feels she is treated like a criminal and it irks her. She believes that at her age, she should be treated with more respect. All this to say, I was a little nervous about  her going through security on her trip back to Paris. So I asked the Angels for help. As I do. And here is what happened. 

The girl at the check in offered to book her for fast track security, for free. I thanked her profusely. My Mum didn’t. She is not very good at this gratitude thing. I also thanked the Angels in my mind. My Mum does not believe in angels. Then we made our way to the customs. The fast track security was empty so she didn’t have to queue. A guy that stood next to the entrance to the futuristic looking area, explained the procedure. I translated for my mum. Slowly. Then I explained that my mum didn’t speak English very well. The girl who ran the belt that takes items for scanning explained things again for my mum. Things had to be separated throughly. Shoes. Coats. Bags. Mum stayed clam. The girl did a thumbs up whilst looking at me. But she went much further than that. She made sure Mum felt safe all the way through. I felt so grateful.  Something in Mum’s suitcase triggered security. Oh dear. On the outbound journey, the staff had confiscated the cod liver tins that she had bought for me. She was aggravated. Plus she suffers from high blood pressure so she had a spike. I took a deep breath and whispered to myself “come on Mum you can do this”. Everything was cleared. Her suitcase was closed. The girl did another thumbs up as Mum walked towards the gates. We made it. Phew. And she hadn’t made a snipe remark to the security staff. I started breathing again. I thanked the guy at the entrance and made my way back to the car. 

What happened next caught me entirely by surprise. I felt the blanket of love. Dad was giving me the biggest hug to thank me for looking after Mum so well. And it felt divine. I hadn’t done all this for Mum so that I could get a hug from heaven. I had not felt the blanket of love for so long that it came as a complete surprise. And what a delightful surprise it was.It made me smile from ear to ear. Dad!

I basked in that feeling for the rest of the day and felt so grateful. I had connected with Dad. 

Have you felt the blanket of love that your loved ones in heaven wrap you in when they want you to feel their love? Would you like to share in the comments? 

To your loved ones in heaven,

(C) Ange de LUmiere 2017

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I am so sorry for your loss 

My aunt died this week. Everyone has been saying I am so sorry for your loss. This comes from a place of kindness. However, every time someone says this, I feel alone. I feel alone because I don’t feel such a huge loss. I know she is still here. I have already had a couple of messages that show that she is having a ball in heaven. And that she is even relieved to have left what she called the human madness. She was never one much for the physicality. She was an intellectual. 

What pains me is the pain I feel from my cousins. I wish I could tell them, your mum is fine. Of course you still miss them. I still miss my Dad. I miss his smile, his voice, his presence, his jokes. I miss having him around. The truth is, though, I am probably closer to him now than I was when he was on earth. We had grown apart. I lived thousands of mile away from him but more importantly, we had radically different views of life. And now, my aunt will be closer to me too. 

She said to me, through an intermediary, that she wants to help.  And frankly, I am thrilled. I can now access her higher self. She can now witness my kids growing, my life, my dreams, my achievements in ways that she could not have done when she was earth bound. And she is not going anywhere soon. This a misconception. Our loved ones in heaven do not need to be left to rest in peace. They are not dead. They are very much alive and still interested in what goes on on earth. They are literally always only a thought away from us. Us thinking of them pulls them towards us. And there is nothing wrong with that. We are not doing anything wrong by wanting him them to stay close to us. 

What happens however, is that our grief, our doubts, our constant mental noise, stop us from hearing back or feeling them, most of the time. Whereas when they are physically present, it’s much harder not to notice them. But in the physical world, sometimes we failed to find the time to go and see them. So it’s still the same.  So we miss them, because in order to feel them, we need to turn the volume down of the constant entertainment hub that our lives are. I am guilty of this as much as any of you are. Life is so busy. I struggle most of the time to keep on top of the things I have to do. But when my Dad was alive, I didn’t have the time to go visit him. I didn’t make the time. 

Making time for our loved ones is so important. And I am so glad I had a chance to see my aunt a couple of months before she died. And in truth, I tried to visit her every time I went to Paris. We had a good chat and a laugh. We learnt to appreciate each other. My father’s death brought us closer. We both loved him so dearly. We need to stop treating people like they are going to be here forever. At the same time, we need to know that they are here with us forever. 

To your spirit team

(c) Ange de Lumiere 2017

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Stop blaming your computer

Did you know that the spirit world can interfere with your computer?  By spirit world I mean Angels, guides and loved ones. Not some malicious entity. Your Angels, guides and loved ones can mess up with the Internet, a piece of software, they can even tweak the results of your google search to give you some useful information. Isn’t that awesome? I think so. 

I think the spirit world had a lot to do with the invention of computers and the Internet because it increases our connection with the invisible world. Pity most people are not aware of this. 

On many instances over the past six months, I have had my iPad freeze or my internet stop working when I needed to get off the computer to check on my kids. Or when I wasn’t supposed to do work but engage more with my family. I work from home so it is easy to get carried away. And I admit I have a bit of an addiction to social media. So my loved ones in the spirit world step in and freeze the connection. When this happens, I immediately know I am supposed to come off the computer. And I feel so grateful. Most people woul complain about their Internet provider. I know better than that. 

So in this blog post, I want to encourage you to look at those software glitches or Internet problems in a different way. Of course, if there is a real and consistent issue with your electronics, get it sorted. This is not what my blog post is about. But if it is a on and off issue and it happens at times where you can see a link with you needing to get off that compuer, start becoming aware of it. Welcome it when it happened. Stop blaming it on the computer. Start noticing that maybe your guides and Angels are trying to communicate with you. Stop thinking of it as weird and random. Pay attention. 

The spirit world interacts with us in the most subtle ways because of free will. It will not make an apparition in your front room with a flash of thunder. More likely, it will nudge in small ways like these. Notice. 

Spirit is always trying to communicate with you. 

Have you had an experience with spirit interfering with your electronics? Would you like to share it in the comments? I would love to hear from you. 

To your spirit team,

(C) Ange de Lumiere 2017

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A sign from heaven

Last time I wrote a blog post, I was longing to hear from my father. The direct connection doesn’t always work. And the reason is that I get so anxious and sad that I block the channels between him and me.

So here is what he did to remind me of his undying love for me on his birthday. He used a Facebook friend. Yes, that’s right. She posted a photo of three planes on her wall. This might seem irrelevant. Why would three planes be a sign from my father?

For those of you who have read my book, it will be obvious. On the day my father died, three planes flew across the sky at the moment that the news of his death reached my elder sister. She told me so half an hour after it happened. She told me that Dad’s magic number was three. I had no idea. The three planes was his sign for her to say: I have arrived safely. I knew that because before my sister called I had this vision of him rising into the sky. But he showed her another way and she saw the sign for what it was. It was so comforting for her.

Three years on, and I was the one who couldn’t hear Dad or see him when he tries to connect to me. So he brought my attention to this FB friend and the picture she posted. This is how subtle signs can be but believe me it is not coincidence.

I love helping people recognise the signs from heaven. All too often, we think we need to go to be a medium to communicate with our loved ones but nothing is further from the truth. Our loved ones always communicate with us. But we miss the signs. We discard them as coincidences.

My mission with my book and this blog post is to help you recognise the signs and feel the love.

What signs have your loved ones in heaven given you recently?

To your loved ones in heaven

(c) Ange de Lumiere 2017

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Mothers (in Heaven) Day

You probably know by now that my father is in heaven. And you rightly assume, as I have never mentioned her being dead, that my mother is alive. And you are right. Although, as you know for me death is all relative. My father is still very much alive even if most of the time I am too deaf clairaudiently to hear him. And that’s ok. I probably don’t need the distraction given how full on my life is.

But what you don’t know, unless you have read my book, is that I have a mother in heaven too. And may I ask, if you haven’t bought my book, why? What is your excuse? Or you couldn’t find the buy now button: well here it is. He he he.

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Getting back to my story. I have a mother in heaven. In the book, I call her Mariane (most of the names in my memoir have been changed to protect privacy). She used to work for my father since before I was born. Officially, she was helping with his private practice, answering the phone, managing client appointments but she was also involved in our private life. She cooked, cleaned, washed, ironed and hugged like a queen.

Mariane is the reason why I am sane. She gave me the love that I so craved and was denied on so many levels although officially we were a perfect family. She was warm, cuddly and she adored me. What was there not to love about her? Hey? She died six months after Dad died. And I love the idea that I now have a mother and father in heaven. She came through a medium a few months after her death when I was feeling bereft. I couldn’t feel her and wanted to much to connect with her.

So with Mothering Sunday coming up in the UK on the 26th of March, I want to honour her. Mariane could not have children and it was her biggest wound because she simply adored them. When she started working at my Dad’s, she took us under her wing and mothering us divinely. So this is why I want to honour her on Sunday as well as all the Mothers in heaven but also the Mother Figures in Heaven. I did wonder, when I moved to the UK, why it was called Mothering Sunday and not Mother’s Day as it was back in France where I come from. But now, I love it. Let’s honour all the Mother Figures in our world. And for me, I want to honour our Mother Figures in Heaven.

So on Sunday, I invite you to join my group: My Father Who Art In Heaven and honour a mother figure in your life that is now in heaven. Post a photo, maybe write a poem, or a blog and share with us so we can all honour her. Note: I am sorry this offer to join the group is not offered to men. Our group is exclusively female. It’s got to do with empowering women… but that’s another subject.

Now here is another question that has been bothering me for a while. Why is Father’s Day not Fathering Sunday? We should honour all the father figures in our lives that have inspired us and taken us under their wings. Right?


(c) Ange de Lumiere 2017

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